I love my friend to death, but her parenting skills.. sometimes makes me wonder.
I went over there Friday to help her move out the crib and get her kid a "big girl bed" it was just a small plastic bed, which I thought was amazing for a 2.5 year old. Anyway we had to go to the store for parts and my friend is so ready to get her kid out of diapers. She buys her some big girl panties to begin the transition.
We go home and as soon as were home the kid wants to big girl underwear on. So mom puts the panties on her and tells her "You tell mommy when you need to go potty, ok"? I immediately tell her that that's not going to work. But she lets her wear the panties anyway. Not 5 minutes later, kid pees panties. Mom goes on about "You were supposed to tell me!" She puts on another pair of panties. 10 minutes later mom asks kid if she needs to pee and of course kid says no. 2 minutes later, another pair of wet panties and a "You were supposed to tell me"! 3rd pair of panties goes on. These last about 15 minutes before the kid wets them. And yet another round of "You were supposed to tell me"! I kept telling my friend that you can't expect a 2.5 year old to know when they have to pee and you're basically going to have to do the whole "sit on the potty till you pee" routine. And since the kid is going through the terrible 2s right now, that's not going to work. Mom had to put pull ups back on her and it took 2 of us to get the pull ups back on because the kid was screaming bloody murder because she didn't want to wear them.
Yet another thing I won't have to worry about by being child free. No pee to clean up and no trying to potty train a kid.